I recently was asked, "what is a ho"? Before I get to casting stones let's really dissect this for a minute shall we. I don't think there is one clear definition on what exactly makes one a "ho" because I think we've all done things that may be considered behavior which more likely than not manifests whorelike tendencies. For instance, some may say that sex on a first date or first encounter is "ho-like"! or maybe sex with numerous partners? sex for money, drugs, dinner or coats? sex with a married man/woman? sex without condoms? sex because you're bored?? who freakin knows where to draw the line. I think being a "ho" has more to do with your intentions than your actions. Let me explain...so let's say you've been single for awhile and you meet a well to do guy and you talk on the phone for a week or so and you finally decide to go out. You guys go to dinner and movie and end up at your house having "coffee." One thing leads to another and his body starts calling for yours. Long story short the panties come off and you find yourself knee deep in the D. You guys eventually become bf/gf, marry and live happily ever after. Are you a "ho"? Now look at it this way. You've been single for awhile and you've been going on dates with different men. One in particular has more money than the next. You go to dinner and a movie and end up at your crib. You know if you fuck him you'll continue to get the niceties. You have sex and send him on his way. Are you a "ho"? Let's say you're broke and call up a guy and have him take you out. Over dinner you share with him your financial status and he offers to give you some money to help you get on your feet. You end up at your crib and you have sex. He leaves $500 on the nightstand. Are you a "ho"? Let's say you've been going thru a whole lot of shit and find yourself calling your married ex. You guys go to dinner and he tells you he's not happy. After 5 martinis you find yourself at your house. One thing leads to another and the panties come off. Are you a "ho"? Let's say to go out with your girl in search of a man. You pick out the one who just dropped a grand at the bar. He's not very cute, actually he's ugly. You don't care. You accidentally bump into him and spark up a conversation. You exchange information. You see him later that week and you let him hit it. Are you a "ho"?
Now there are some things which one can do which would put them in the "ho fa sho" category, well at least in my opinion. If you fuck 5 different people in the same week, you a "ho fa sho"! If you fuck 2 different people in close proximity and swallow on both, you a "ho fa sho"! If you fuck for 10 dollars and a hit, you a "ho fa sho"! If you have more than 2 potential baby daddies, you a "ho fa sho"! The list goes but I'd like to get your thoughts on what a "ho fa sho" is.............
My thoughts are, to each his own. Everyone must live with the decisions he/she makes. No one else can determine how you feel about yourself. Maybe you're a "ho" maybe not! Whatever you decide, make sure its your choice and live with it.
If there was a picture in the dictionary next to the word "ho," who do you is the prototype??
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If you don’t tell anybody your business YOU AIN’T A HO!!!!!!!!!!!
It’s only other people who label you. Usually your so called friends. What did I tell you about FRIENDS? F&*% them anyway. Do whatever you want to do. AIN’Y NOBODY’S BUSINESS.
IF YOU DON’T THINK YOU’SE A HO, YOU AIN’T A HO!
If you don't walk the track, then you ain't a ho. If a woman likes to mess with the guy who can provide the guranteed orgasm, then why call her a ho. At the end of the day we are all paying for it in some way. My thing is this, if we label a woman a ho who has a dude for whatever need (fo sho orgasm, money, food, etc.)what do we call the fellaz who keep a team of ladies for whatever they need( master head giver, monetary help, etc)? A ho or a playa? Life is too short man, we gotta do what makes u s happy. Hel with what people may say. Or keep your mouth shut about it like "momma knows..." said....big lil bro
Did you bring coats into this?? GET THE HELL OUTTA HERE!! haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
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If you r F*&king for a job or upward mobility then you a ho...you did not get there on your merit but on your back...and that will follow you always. when you decide that you are at a place when you can stop and want to be known for your mind and not your goodies it may be too late and you will always be expected to f*ck for a job which in my book =HO or should I say Ho fo sho
Before I begin my enlightened commentary, I would like to applaud the acknowledgement of bonin’ for coats. It’s a very progressive way of life.
But back to being a “ho fa sho”. Unfortunately life is prostitution. We prositute at work, in school and in our daily interactions. Example: let’s say a ninja takes me out for dinner and buys me drinks. I may not give him ass that evening however, in no way did I really get a free meal. That ninja was compensated for experiencing this golden conversation! He got to hang out and spend time with me and everyone knows that time is money! Some may argue that dating is more of a bartering system than actually recieving money in exchange for a service. I say you're right, but it still wasn't free, it cost you.
So in conclusion, if you live in America, land of the whore home of Capitalism you'se a "ho fa sho!"
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